I’ve found that men really love it when you send them texts, especially when the message hits just the right note, something they can’t stop thinking about. You know, the kind of text that makes them smile at their phone or even replay it in their head a few times.
Think about it, a well-crafted message can be all he needs to have a good day and of course, the spark that keeps things exciting. You don’t have to be over the top or cheesy; just know what to say and when to say it.
Whether it’s a playful tease or a heartfelt compliment, the right text can make a guy’s mind wander back to you, even when he’s swamped with other things. And the good thing is that these texts are fun to send.
90 Texts that Men Obsess Over
The flirty icebreaker
- “You’ve been on my mind all day 😘.”
- “Can’t wait to see you later… I have a little surprise for you 😉.”
- “What would you say if I told you I’m thinking about you right now?”
- “Guess who’s thinking about you right now… yep, me.”
- “So, when am I seeing you again?”
- “I had such a great time with you the other day.”
- “You seriously make my day better.”
- “What would you say if I showed up at your place right now?”
- “So, when do I get to see that handsome face again?”
- “I’ve been thinking about you non-stop today.”
The genuine compliment
- “I love the way you [something specific he does].”
- “You’re so good at [something he’s proud of]. Seriously impressive!”
- “You always know how to make me smile 😊.”
- “How did I get so lucky to have someone like you in my life?”
- “You’re always on my mind.”
- “I love how confident you are. It’s such a turn-on.”
- “I’m so lucky I get to know you.”
- “You’re really something special.”
- “I just wanted to remind you how awesome you are.”
- “You’re seriously amazing at [something he’s good at].”
The inside joke
- “Remember that time we couldn’t stop laughing about [inside joke]? Still cracks me up.”
- “Guess who had a dream about you last night? 🙃”
- “If you could teleport anywhere right now, where would you take me?”
- “What’s something I do that makes you smile?”
- “You’re definitely my favorite distraction.”
- “I can’t stop thinking about that moment when [shared experience].”
- “I bet you’d look really cute right now 😍.”
- “You always find a way to surprise me.”
- “What’s the first thing that comes to your mind when you think of me?”
- “If we were together right now, what would we be doing?”
The spontaneous “I miss you”
- “I miss hearing your voice.”
- “I miss the way you always know how to cheer me up.”
- “You really know how to get my attention.”
- “I bet you look really good today.”
- “I could really go for one of your hugs right now.”
- “I’m counting down the minutes until I see you again.”
- “You’ve been on my mind a lot lately.”
- “You’re the best thing that’s happened to me today.”
- “I can’t wait to hear your voice again.”
- “You’ve got me hooked.”
The suggestive but classy text
- “I’m wearing that outfit you like today.”
- “I had a dream about you last night… should I tell you what happened?”
- “If I was there right now, what would we be doing?”
- “Can’t stop thinking about how much fun we have together.”
- “You’ve got this energy that I can’t get enough of.”
- “What would you do if I kissed you right now?”
- “I can’t stop thinking about your smile.”
- “You always leave me wanting more.”
- “There’s just something about you that I can’t get enough of.”
- “I can’t stop imagining how we’d be right now if we were together.”
The thoughtful check-in
- “How’s your day going? 😊”
- “I hope your day is as great as you are.”
- “Just checking in to see how you’re doing.”
- “I know you’re busy, but I wanted to say I’m thinking about you.”
- “I hope you’re having an awesome day so far.”
- “I was wondering how you’re feeling today.”
- “Is there anything I can do to make your day better?”
- “Just wanted to say hi and see how you’re doing.”
- “What’s something good that’s happened to you today?”
- “Just a little reminder that I’m thinking about you.”
The appreciation message
- “I love how you always make me feel special.”
- “I really appreciate everything you do for me.”
- “You make everything better just by being around.”
- “I’m so grateful to have you in my life.”
- “Thank you for always knowing how to brighten my day.”
- “You’re such an amazing person. I’m so lucky.”
- “I appreciate the little things you do more than you know.”
- “You always find a way to make me feel loved.”
- “I just realized how much I appreciate you.”
- “Thank you for being you.”
The “memory lane” message
- “Remember when we [shared experience]? I can’t stop thinking about that.”
- “That time we [inside joke] was seriously the best.”
- “I was just thinking about that night we spent [special memory].”
- “Do you remember our first date? Feels like it was just yesterday.”
- “That time we went to [place] was so much fun.”
- “I can’t get that look you gave me out of my head from the other day.”
- “I keep thinking about when we [specific memory].”
- “I love that we have so many great memories together.”
- “Thinking about that time we [inside joke] still makes me smile.”
- “I can’t wait to make more memories with you.”
The mystery tease
- “I have something to tell you… but you’ll have to guess what it is.”
- “I have a little secret… but you’ll have to wait to find out.”
- “Guess what I’m thinking about right now.”
- “I’m going to leave you wondering about what I have in store for you.”
- “There’s something I’ve been meaning to tell you, but not yet.”
- “I’ve got a surprise for you, but you’ll have to wait and see.”
- “I’ll let you in on a little secret… but only if you guess right.”
- “I know something you don’t know… want to find out?”
- “I have a fun plan in mind, but I’m not telling you just yet.”
- “What if I told you I have something exciting planned for us?”
Conclusion
Sending the right text at the right time can make all the difference in keeping the spark alive. Whether it’s playful, heartfelt, or a little mysterious, the key is to be genuine and have fun with it. These texts are meant to show that you care, keep things interesting, and remind him just how much he’s on your mind. So go ahead, hit send, and watch him light up.
