Mia Kirshner, a well-known name in entertainment since 1989, has featured in numerous films and TV shows.
The 48-year-old Canadian, best known for her sultry yet poignant performances in ‘The L Word’ and ‘The Black Dahlia,’ has also been regarded as a sex symbol.
She secured the 38th spot on the Maxim Sexiest Women Alive list in 2002 and boasted of several high-profile relationships.
However, over the last few years, Kirshner has been noticeably absent from the spotlight, leaving many of her admirers asking, “Is Mia Kirshner married?”
Let’s take a peek into her personal life to answer this question and more.
Is Mia Kirshner Married?
Mia Kirshner is likely not married, although many seem to believe that the “Vampire Diaries” actor has tied the knot secretly.
Born on January 25, 1975, in Toronto, Canada, Mia Kirshner hails from Bulgarian and Polish descent.
Kirshner’s father, Sheldon Kirshner, is a well-known journalist, while her mother, Etti Kirshner, worked as an English teacher.
Mia Kirshner’s passion for acting blossomed at a young age. Encouraged by her parents, she embarked on her acting journey while still in elementary school.
Throughout her career, Kirshner had many prolific relationships, none of which led to the altar.
And ever since she distanced herself from the media and paparazzi, it has been increasingly difficult for her fans to keep up with her.
Nevertheless, despite her limited activity on social media, it’s quite evident that she is not married, neither is she dating anyone.
In addition to that, her Twitter account name, ‘@msmiakirshner,’ strongly suggests that she is a Miss and not a Mrs.
Mia Kirshner’s Past Partners
From fellow actors to business tycoons, Mia Kirshner has had quite a colorful dating history. Here’s what we know:
1. Evan Dando (1994, 2004, and 2005)
One of Mia Kirshner’s most notable relationships was with Evan Dando, an American rock musician and songwriter.
The couple dated in 1994, and Mia took the Lemonheads lead singer as her date to the 1995 Oscars. They were also linked together in 2005 and 2006.
Although the relationship reportedly lasted on and off for several years, they eventually decided to part ways.
2. Stephen Hopkins (2001)
In 2001, Mia Kirshner was briefly in a relationship with Primetime Emmy award winner Stephen Hopkins.
While their relationship was short-lived, they were reported to have met on the sets of the first season of the popular TV series ‘24,’ where Stephen had produced and directed several episodes of the show.
3. Jennifer Beals (2004)
During her time on the hit television series “The L Word,” Mia Kirshner was rumored to have been in a relationship with her co-star Jennifer Beals.
It was claimed that they often used to slip together to New York City for the weekends while shooting for the lesbian-centric TV show.
The on-screen chemistry between the two actresses fueled speculation about their off-screen romance, although neither of them publicly confirmed the relationship.
4. Kate Moennig (2004)
Another co-star from “The L Word,” Kate Moennig, was also rumored to have been involved romantically with Mia Kirshner in 2004.
Once again, the intense bond between their characters on the show led fans to suspect a real-life connection.
However, like her alleged relationship with Jennifer Beals, Mia never officially acknowledged being in a relationship with Kate Moennig at the time.
Later in 2021, while chatting with fans, Moennig confirmed she indeed had an off-screen affair with Kirshner, stating “I have a history with her on and off-screen.”
5. Sam Shepard (2014 – 2015)
From 2014 to 2015, Mia was in a PDA-filled relationship with Sam Shepard, a highly respected actor, playwright, and director.
Their relationship attracted attention due to Sam Shepard’s influential presence in the entertainment industry.
Despite Mia being 30 years younger than Sam, their love affair bloomed quickly. Unfortunately, their romance was relatively short-lived.
6. David R. Sutcliffe (2015)
Mia Kirshner dated David R. Sutcliffe, a Canadian-American actor known for his role as Christopher Hayden in the TV series “Gilmore Girls.”
The two were involved in a romantic courtship from 2015 to 2016. This was Kirshner’s last known relationship.
Other Relationships
Apart from the ones previously mentioned, Mia Kirshner has also been romantically connected to Scott Bairstow, Grant Bowler and Mike Bender.
As of now, details about the duration and nature of these relationships are not clear.
Mia Kirshner’s Current Status and Humanitarian Work
In 2018, she began a recurring role on Star Trek: Discovery playing Amanda Grayson, human mother of series protagonist Michael Burnham and mother of Spock, a role originated by Jane Wyatt on the original Star Trek.
Beyond her acting career, Mia Kirshner is a passionate advocate for change. In 2008, she co-wrote a book titled “I Live Here,” shedding light on the challenging lives of women and children across the globe.
She has also been actively involved in the AfterMeToo movement, which aims to raise awareness about workplace sexual violence in the Canadian film and TV industry.
The movement emerged as a platform for survivors, trauma experts, witnesses, and human rights lawyers to share their experiences and seek justice.
The AfterMeToo movement has provided a space for individuals to come forward and share their stories on sexual harassment within the industry.
Kirshner’s involvement in this important cause reflects her commitment to creating a safer and more inclusive working environment.
A dream came true. Canada's Minister Of Justice, The Honorable Jodie Wilson-Raybould, came and spoke eloquently at @aftermetoo @globeandmail on her work to reform how the justice system deals with sexual misconduct. I long admired this tremendous person. @Puglaas @HannahSung pic.twitter.com/QrCSroBnYO
— Mia Kirshner (@msmiakirshner) December 7, 2017
These days, Mia lives a quiet life away from the limelight of the entertainment industry, spending time with her German shepherd Strawberry as well as lending a voice for endangered and displaced animals.
Whether she is dating, hitched, or simply keeping her love life private, one thing is for sure—she will continue to remain one of the most celebrated actresses of her time.
