What Do Guys Fantasize About Their Crush?

The truth is, every guy has or once had a crush. True to your guess, such a crush usually results in a feeling of fantasy about the crush. 

Sure, it safe be pick interest and possibly ask, “what do guys fantasize about their crush” Sadly, the general misconception is that guys usually conjure or imagine romantic scenes about their crush. Well, this is not so in all cases. 

Are you intrigued to know more about everything a guy may fantasize about his crush? If yes, this article will give a detailed insight into what guys fantasize about when they have a crush.

What Does Fantasy About a Crush Mean?

Fantasy about a crush means creating an imaginary picture of you and your crush. This involves thinking and daydreaming about yourself with her.

While it eventually becomes a reality in some situations, others remain daydreams until forever comes. Haha

Fantasizing about your crush is often associated with romantic and romantically related imaginations.

You are just turned on and going crazy about those wet lips of perhaps your favorite movie star.

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Is It Bad to Have a Crush?

No, it is not bad to have a crush. You can have a strong attraction toward a person. However, it is best never to go the extreme mile of having an obsession with them. 

Sadly, thinking about your crush day and night may cause instability in your day-to-day activities. Interestingly research on loneliness, gender, and parasocial interaction shows that having crushes help to reduce the rate of loneliness because it often looks as though both parties are in a relationship.

Is It Bad to Fantasize About Your Crush?

Well, it’s not bad to fantasize about your gorgeous crush. Nevertheless, do not over-fantasize. Fantasizing about your crush every time may become habitual and causes you to see your crush as just a fun doll.

On the flip side, a little fantasy about your crush whenever you set your eyes on her can boost your confidence to walk up to her and express your feelings finally. Overdoing it can push you unconsciously to harass her s$xually, which will be disrespectful, especially when done in a public place.

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Do Guys Fantasize About Romantical Activities With Their Crush?

Yes, guys fantasize about having fun with their crush, but not in all cases. Looking at her butts, round boobs, and hourglass figure may cause you to fantasize about having her in bed, getting her wet, and getting intimate with her.

Fantasizing about s$xual activities in her presence may get you staring at her boobs or butts, which may be embarrassing to her.

I’m sure you know that fantasizing about s$xual activities may also get you “bricked,” and she won’t feel comfortable looking at that brick pointing at her from your pants. Noticing your brick may get her thinking that all you want is having her on your bed and nothing else.

How Many Times in a Day Do Guys Think About Their Crush?

There may not be an exact number of times that guys think about their crush. However, having thoughts about your crush depends on certain factors, such as your prior relationship with her, your distance from her, and how often you see her.

On average, a guy thinks about his crush between 10 and 50 times based on several factors. Let’s quickly have a look at these factors in more detail.

1. Prior relationship with her

If you have been an intimate friend with your crush, such that you both share some memories, you will think about her many times in a day. Think about this, were you guys friends with benefits initially? 

If so, you probably have had each other in bed. Those memories will make you think about her many times in a day, perhaps up to 30 times.

2. Your distance from her

Does your crush live in a different city? Or maybe a different country? If so, you may rarely fantasize about her because the probability of seeing her is low. The fantasy may only come whenever you look at her pictures or videos.

3. How often do you see her

If you live in the same neighborhood with your crush, or perhaps you attend the same school, department, and level, you are most likely to see her every day.

Seeing her now and then will get you fantasizing about her more often, especially if she’s damn cute! “How do I walk up to her?” “How do I speak to her?” “How do I…?

Those thoughts will keep coming to your mind, making you have ceaseless fantasies about the lady that gives you a thumping heart.

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How To Know When A Guy Fantasizes About You

As a lady, you may not know what a guy fantasizes about you. However, there is a tendency for you to have an idea that a guy fantasizes about you. Perhaps he was busy discussing with his friends in the classroom or a shopping mall you walked in, and he suddenly paused and couldn’t help but stare at you.

A guy that fantasizes about will gaze at you often, but he won’t look you in the eye. Instead, he will most likely look at the feminine parts of your body–your boobs, butts, curvy hips, and glossy lips. 

Fantasies Guys Have About Their Crush

Are you curious to know the different things guys think when they have a crush? You probably may have known some. However, let’s discuss some of these fantasies.

1. Wow! What a beauty

This is perhaps the first thing every guy thinks about when they have a crush on someone. They wouldn’t even know when they exclaim her beauty. 

The truth is that beauty gets the attention of a guy. It is that quality a lady must have to turn guys’ heads on the streets.

Of course, as a guy, the moment you see a beautiful lady, it comes naturally for you to express your view about her beauty. They say beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. So, the extent and rating of a lady’s beauty depend on the guy.

2. Oh my goodness; She is mine

No guy wants to lose any opportunity to express their feelings to their crush. From the moment a guy sets his eyes on his crush, he begins to look for ways to get closer to her with the mindset that she belongs to him.

3. Lots of compliments

“Hi! I just wanted to tell you that you are the most beautiful being God created” “Well, thanks, So?”

A guy will practice in his imagination how to give compliments on everything about their crush, from her head to her toes. When a guy has a crush on you, he compliments you unconsciously; sometimes, the compliment seems unrealistic.

“Your hair color matches your eye color” “Wait, what?” “I’m blonde, but my eye is black”–Don’t mind the dude!

4. I wish I could take her on a date now

Every guy imagines going to an adventure island with their crush, especially to a quiet place where it will just bother them.

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5. How will our kids look? 

“Of course, they will take after her adoring beauty.” Truly, a guy may begin to fantasize about the beauty of the unborn child relating it to the beauty of her crush. 

6. We will certainly make a perfect couple

A guy may fantasize about you both raising some beautiful kids together as a legally married couple–How sweet?

7. I wish I could have a bite of that lovely lips

If proper care is not taken, urges come into play. Thoughts like, “I will like to have a bite of her lips,” “If only I could have a one-time ‘fun’ with her,” and so on. 

However, it is more secure to leave it as a daydream or ask her on a date.

8. I will not miss any opportunity to talk to her

“She should just give me attention for once”, he muttered. “I will stop whatever I’m doing in order not to miss this golden opportunity”

9. If I can’t have her, nobody will

Another sarcastic thought that may erupt if care is not taken is, “if I can’t have her, nobody will.” This often happens in extreme situations when the guy has walked up to the lady and was rejected. Such a guy may have felt desperate and made that fantasy.

Conclusion 

Guys fantasize a lot about their crush, and it’s normal. If, as a guy, you have a crush on a girl, you will most likely think of going out on a date with her, kissing her lips, spanking her butts, cuddling her in the cold winter, and finally giving her a warm bang on your bed.

However, care should be taken to avoid overdoing it. Too many fantasies can trigger you to harass that beautiful lady you’re crushing on s$xually.